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Which do you prefer...Butch or Fem..Or Neither!! And Why???

  • January 7, 2018 5:20 PM GMT
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    March 8, 2018 5:03 AM GMT
    I prefere femmes because that's just my personal taste. I love a female who looks femenine with a goth style .. :)
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    March 8, 2018 10:41 AM GMT
    I like fem girls iam a tomboy so like them girly
  • March 13, 2018 8:41 PM GMT
    It really depends on the person. I am most attracted to women who are more masculine most of the time, but who doesn’t like a girly girl when she’s the right one.
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    March 13, 2018 8:53 PM GMT
    BUTCH 100%, i love strong ,masculine women , that's my taste .
  • March 19, 2018 4:05 PM GMT

    Love fem;esp mature and sensual xx

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    March 27, 2018 9:08 AM BST

    I honetly don't use lables at all. I'd only prefer girls that likes girls. Plus, attitude is most important of all.;)

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    April 23, 2018 9:12 PM BST
    I don’t really have a “type” - I find all types attractive, as long as they’re clean and well put together.
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    August 12, 2018 3:55 PM BST
    I’d say that I am mate attracted to femmes but with more of a tomboy personality although I do sometimes find I am more attracted to more androgynous women as well.
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    August 15, 2018 5:27 AM BST

    i always am attracted to aggressive butch girls that treat me as a lady. i am shy, introverted and only respond to butches that come on to me forcefully like don't even think about ignoring me type. 

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    September 11, 2018 9:16 PM BST

    I'm a tomboy femme, I like stuff like football but am quite femme in appearance, but I prefer the femme look, but some girls can look gorgeous with short hair and tomboy look lol

  • September 12, 2018 5:22 PM BST

    I think of myself more as domme than butch, but I'm definitely of the stronger, controlling variety. My partners, Toni and Lara are femme and like to please.

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    September 13, 2018 3:43 AM BST

    I'm more butch and I like femmes.

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    September 15, 2018 10:36 PM BST

    I honestly don't believe much in all that stereotypical labeling.

    I usually fall for characteristics,qualities as a person,a connection,etc. not looks or clothes or whatever.

    if i really think about and look back on who i've been with or fallen for in the past, it's more smart ,creative, intelligent people,who were kind and funny and playful but also, that's kinda what i like.i wouldn't really call them fem or butch, maybe if anything some could be called a bit tomboyish

  • September 16, 2018 8:27 PM BST

    I never really thought about it, but I think I like tomboys more. I do like sporty looking girls.

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    September 17, 2018 8:39 AM BST

    I prefer tomboy or butcch.  Get to be more fem 

  • October 3, 2018 11:52 PM BST

    I prefer fem: I love my girls to be very girly girly makes me so hot knowing that I'm eating a pretty and sensuous girl the men cant get Lol xx

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    October 20, 2018 2:36 PM BST

    I prefer femme, but having never actually been with a woman yet, my preferences could change

  • October 21, 2018 7:07 AM BST

    I prefer fems but butch are welcome also. 

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    November 17, 2018 7:18 AM GMT

    I lipstick femme lesbian so melt for tough butch type esp physical fight ones that make me feel safe with them around. 

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    November 18, 2018 10:51 AM GMT

    I like femme. 'Cause I'm athletic softbutch, and I like sweet and soft femmes that needs to be protect from the heartless word.)

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    November 29, 2018 10:04 PM GMT

    i  a sweet soft femme.. so i love strong agressive masculine butch type.. that know how i take care of my heart..  and keep me safe..

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    March 25, 2019 4:20 PM GMT
    I don't know if I have a dating type per se. I'll confess I have a thing for big boobs but as far as butch femme or tomboy I think I'm a neither. If we click we click.
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    March 30, 2019 9:01 PM GMT
    I prefer tomboy or butch as am famme. To be true anyone will do as long as we go along well
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    April 10, 2019 11:33 AM BST

    I'm a tomboy and prefer other tomboys.