I came out as a teen to my mom and stepdad who I was living with at the time. They really were not supportive at all and my mom thought it was a "phase" i was going thru as a teenager. My dad and stepmom was so support of me and was my rock. When I turned 18 I moved in with my dad and stepmom. My mom and I don't really have a good relationship. She said my dad was enabling me and that I am not really a lesbian. I started attending college and she refused to help in anyway.