I am a divorced bi woman I have only one girl aged 18, I have a serious problem ,my daughter discovered that I am a bi woman when she opened secretly my computer and watched some recorded videos in which I participate with groups in fetish parties for fun ,my daughter now knows everything. she told me she was chocked I didn't find any explanations i tried to tell her that it is my personal life so she told me that she also has a personal life and that she is free to do what she wants ,in the last few weeks I discovered that my daughter is dating older women I don't know why she's doing this maybe she wants to get revenge on me.
[blockquote]sara96 said:
your daughter is an adult person if she chose to be lesbian it's her own life but you can protect her when you discover she is in danger meeting older women is quite normal I don't know why you you're worried
[/blockquote]I am worried because my daughter is still young and has no experience in life and when she meets older women they can use her as a sex toy
you know parents don't think in this way, for example a parent who smokes when he finds out his child smoking he will tell him smoking is bad for health because it's the truth ,and in my case I want a better life for my daugther because she can practice sex in normal way and not necessarily becoming bi or lesbian
[blockquote]ImplosiveIvory said:
So you are basically saying that lesbianism or bisexuality isn't normal?? Why is it that you think she can't have a great life being partnered with a woman?
[/blockquote]lesbianism or bisexuality are normal for me but my daughter is trying to meet older women and in these relationships the older woman controls the youngest one.
[blockquote]Justbee said: Good. I assume all of us in here also have/had parents. Don't know the details but get and respect your concern. But could it 1. She's a mature kid and for some reason that's her taste 2. And/or she got "mommy" issues, old over sized, she's dating someone who resemble her mom. You mention divorce, how is your relationship with her, she feels she lacked/is lacking something in her life and try to fill that through her relationships. All valid questions to ask as a parent, no? And no I'm not questioning if she's really a lesbian or not, or if whatever problems she feels she has turned her into one or not, to others that might read this[/blockquote]
you're right sometimes girls like a partner who look like their parents